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Other notable dates on our calendar…

We have a children’s party and have also recently had a communal ‘salt beef & latkes’ dinner, with special guest speaker.

Our Chanukah Craft Fair in December 2022 raised hundreds of pounds for the shul, Kisharon and Jewish Women’s Aid – see here for some photos

Click here to see the videos of The Doughnut Man Visits Pinner or here to listen to a series of Rabbi Kurzer’s podcasts for the eight nights.

Photos from Purim in Pinner 2022

Purim Programme 2023

We have a full programme of events including several megillah readings, a children’s fancy dress party and a communal festive meal. For further details of our 2023 Purim Programme, please see our weekly emails or contact Carolyn in the shul office on 020 8868 7204 for more information.

Rabbi Kurzer’s Purim Summary 2023

There are four main mitzvot of Purim and the first three should be done during the daytime of Purim itself i.e. Tuesday 7th March 2023 before sunset (rather than Monday evening).

1. Festive Meal

This can take place any time from sunrise to sunset although most people tend to begin their festive meal towards the end of the day.  This is an opportunity to have a festive gathering and celebrate Purim with family and friends.  Nevertheless, the minimum requirement is simply to have a meal to celebrate Purim and therefore simply enjoying a sandwich on a busy Purim day can suffice!

2. Gifts to the poor (matanot l’evyonim)
More than just generic charity (see below), these gifts are given to someone in need on the day of Purim itself.  I am happy to accept donations of cash in person which I will distribute locally on Purim.  Alternatively, there are a number of organisations who offer an online matanot l’evyonim service, including the United Synagogue by clicking here or through a texting service by GIFT by texting “PURIM23 £10” to 70191 (the charge will appear on your phone bill).

In addition, Purim is a special time to be generous and those who would like to give to other charities which may not technically be matanot l’evyonim are encouraged to do so, particularly prioritising this over extravagant mishloach manot (see below).

3. Food packages to increase friendship (mishloach manot)
The basic commandment requires us to give a gift of at least two items of food or drink (ready to eat) to a person or family though people tend to give to many more.  The idea is to increase friendship and joy and that is a wonderful thing, particularly when one goes beyond their normal circle of friends.

There is no need to make these elaborate and expensive and, particularly this year, the gesture of goodwill by giving a simple gift of food to someone who will appreciate the thought is the ideal fulfilment of this mitzvah.

4. Reading the Megillah
One is required to read the megillah from a scroll both on the eve of Purim and again during the day.  In practice, most of us usually fulfil this obligation through hearing someone read on our behalf (“shaliach”).

There will be one megillah reading at night, following Maariv at 6:30pm and two Megillah readings during the day – one as part of Shacharit, beginning at 6:45am and the other in Gesher school at 9:30am.  We are grateful to Gesher for allowing us to join their school-wide reading – please let Carolyn know you are coming (admin@pinnershul.org) and bring ID on the day for security purposes.

For those unable to attend in person, whilst listening via electronic media (whether video or Zoom) is not a classic fulfilment of the mitzvah, it is still important to have a positive connection to the day of Purim and its story.  To that end, our friends and colleagues, Rabbi and Rebbetzen Dansky have produced a video called Highlights from the Megillah and Rabbi Laitner has recorded an explanatory megillah reading – we hope you enjoy!

Additionally, many have a custom to give some money to commemorate the machatzit hashekel, the dues that were given to the Beit HaMikdash (Temple) on the eve of Purim.  The Ashkenaz custom is to give three coins which have half the value of the common coin of that time and place, in our case, three 50p pieces.  There will be a tray available for this at Mincha and Maariv for those who would like.  Simply acquire the 50p pieces on the tray with a donation of £1.50 or more and then donate the 50p pieces back by placing on the tray, thereby commemorating this mitzvah.

This is the day on which the walls of Jerusalem were breached prior to the destruction of the Second Temple although there have been many tragedies in our history on this day, from the smashing of the first Tablets by Moses at the foot of Mt Sinai to atrocities in the Holocaust including the liquidation of the Kovno Ghetto.

To see Rabbi Kurzer’s abbreviated laws for the Fast of Tammuz and the ‘Three Weeks’, click the link below.

Rabbi Kurzer's Abridged Halachot of Shiva Asar b'Tammuz and the Three Weeks

Thursday 6th July 2023 is the Fast of Tammuz. This is the day on which the walls of Jerusalem were breached prior to the destruction of the Second Temple although there have been many tragedies in our history on this day, from the smashing of the first Tablets by Moses at the foot of Mt Sinai to atrocities in the Holocaust including the liquidation of the Kovno Ghetto.

As this is a summer fast, it is likely to be a hot day. If you plan to fast, please make sure to drink plenty of water in advance and stay cool on the day. If you think you should fast but are concerned about whether it is advisable, make sure to discuss with a medical professional in advance. If you would like halachic guidance on whether to fast, please be in touch with me directly.

If you feel unwell or concerned about dehydration, do not continue fasting.

Here is a short summary of some of the laws of the fast:

  • The fast begins at dawn (1:05am) and continues until the end of the day (10:17pm).
  • Medications prescribed by a doctor may be taken on this fast day. If swallowing pills without water is difficult, one may drink a small amount of water required to swallow the medicine.
  • If a healthy person accidentally ate or drank, the fast should be resumed and completed.
  • Selichot are recited at Shacharit and Avinu Malkeinu is said in the morning and afternoon. Mincha in Shul also includes leining.

The Fast of Tammuz also begins a period known as the ‘Three Weeks’. It is a time that we reflect on many communal tragedies throughout our history, most notably, the destruction of the First and Second Temple. Restrictions include:

  • Taking haircuts.
  • Weddings and parties, except mitzvah celebrations (e.g. Brit, Pidyon HaBen, etc).
  • Listening to music or dancing. If music is necessary to lift one’s spirits rather than for entertainment alone, in many cases it is permitted.
  • New clothing and fruit (which would necessitate the blessing of “Shehechiyanu”) should not be purchased, worn or eaten.

From Rosh Chodesh Av (19 th July 2023), the mourning intensifies for the ‘Nine Days’ and further restrictions include:

  • Shaving (for men). If one is unable to avoid shaving for the full nine-days (e.g. for work), one should avoid shaving on the week in which Tisha B’Av falls, and certainly on Tisha B’Av itself.
  • Freshly dry-cleaned or laundered outer clothing (e.g. shirts, suits, etc. as opposed to undergarments) should be avoided on weekdays. Clothes should not be cleaned or laundered during the Nine Days unless there is no other option (e.g. for young children or if one runs out).
  • New clothing may not be purchased or worn (even without the blessing of “Shehechiyanu”). If necessary, non-leather shoes for Tisha B’Av may be purchased.
  • Meat and wine/grape juice may not be eaten/drunk, except on Shabbat (even if you start Shabbat early) or at a Mitzvah celebration (e.g. Brit, Pidyon HaBen, etc.).
  • Havdallah after Shabbat should be made on wine or grape juice as usual. If possible a child should drink the grape juice but if not, one can drink it oneself.
  • Swimming and bathing for pleasure is restricted. However, it is permitted to wash for cleanliness although one should ideally do so in colder water than usual. Washing in warm water is permitted on Friday in honour of Shabbat.
  • Unnecessary, long trips should be avoided during the nine days, though travel for education or business is permitted.

Rabbi Ben Kurzer, June 2023

To download a PDF copy of Rabbi Kurzer’s abbreviated laws for the Fast of Tammuz and the ‘Three Weeks’, click here.

Tisha B’Av, the saddest day in the Jewish calendar, is the day on which we mourn all Jewish tragedies throughout our history, most notably the destruction of both the First and Second Temple. Click the link below for a summary of some of the laws of Tisha B’Av, many of which are similar to the practices of Shiva as we mourn the loss of our Temple as though it has just happened.

Abridged Tisha B'Av Halachot

This year, 9th Av begins on Wednesday evening 25th July at 8:58pm and ends on Thursday 26th July at 9:49pm.

  • Prior to the beginning of the fast, many have a small, solitary meal, known as a “seudah hamafseket” (lit. “separation meal”). This usually consists of bread with something simple, such as a boiled egg, and is traditionally eaten on a low chair or sitting on the floor.
  • One can drink throughout this meal. One may eat a larger meal prior to this to have strength for the fast.
  • Although it is best to daven mincha prior to this meal, those attending a Shul which davens mincha just before the fast begins may complete this meal before mincha instead.
  • In Shul we read eicha and say kinnot together following maariv. Both of these can be read at home and there are many online programmes to connect with.

Our Sages laid out a few main prohibitions on the day of Tisha B’Av itself, including:

  • Eating and drinking. One who is fully healthy should not eat throughout the fast. One who is unwell, frail, or with a specific at-risk medical condition may be required to eat. As this is a summer fast, it is likely to be a hot day. If you plan to fast, please make sure to drink plenty of water in advance and stay cool on the day. If you think you should fast but are concerned about whether it is advisable, make sure to discuss with a medical professional in advance. If you would like halachic guidance on whether to fast, please be in touch with me directly. If you feel unwell or concerned about dehydration, do not continue fasting.
  • One should not wash or bathe other than for hygiene or halachic ritual. Washing “al netilat yadayim” in the morning is restricted to the fingers up to the knuckles. After using the bathroom one should wash as necessary for hygiene but no more. Washing parts of oneself to clean specific dirt is permitted.
  • Cosmetics should not be used on Tisha B’Av, however, they can be applied before the fast begins even though they may last through the day. Deodorant may be used but aftershave or perfume should not be.
  • Shoes made of leather should not be worn.
  • Learning Torah is restricted to topics of Tisha B’Av, mourning, biblical prophecies regarding the Temple’s destruction and other similar topics. This prohibition begins from the afternoon prior to when the fast begins.
  • We sit on or close to the floor (e.g. on a shiva chair) from the eve of Tisha B’Av until halachic midday (1:07pm) on Tisha B’Av day. Those with back problems or similar should sit on a regular chair.
  • We do not exchange greetings or make social conversation on Tisha B’Av, as we join together in silent mourning for the destruction of the two Temples and many subsequent tragedies. If one is greeted, one may respond in a soft voice so as not to embarrass or offend the other person. These restrictions apply to virtual communications as well.
  • Tallit and Tefillin are not worn on Tisha B’Av morning (Tzitzit should be worn without a blessing). Tallit and Tefillin are put on at Mincha, with the brachot (blessings).
  • After the fast the limitations of the Three Weeks and Nine Days, including music, laundry, haircuts, drinking wine and eating of meat, continue until midday the following day.

“כל המתאבל על ירושלים זוכה ורואה בשמחתה”

One who mourns for Jerusalem, will merit to see to its rejoicing May it come speedily, in our days.

Click here to download a PDF copy of a summary of some of the laws of Tisha B’Av.

We run a meaningful programme throughout the day – see below for recent programmes, run in conjunction with Northwood United Synagogue.

We are proud to celebrate Yom Ha’Atzmaut (יום העצמאות), commemorating the Israeli Declaration of Independence in 1948 and Yom Yerushalayim, Jerusalem Day (יום ירושלים) marking the reunification of Jerusalem and the establishment of Israeli control over the Old City in the aftermath of the June 1967 Six-Day War.

In 2017, we held a special celebratory evening to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the reunification of Jerusalem.

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